Most guys will cheat during business hours when theyre away so your PI can follow him to and from work. It never liesif you think something is going on it prob is. There are also men that get continuously accused of cheating when they arent and that wife badgers him, controls him, goes through his phone and smothers him that guess what Honey you pushed him into another womans arms and now he looks like the bad guy. I wont leave her because I know that she has a mental illness. What prompted you to search the internet for articles about husbands cheating? He did and spent Christmas with her and her family.I filed for divorce two weeks later. The pictures on her profile were all bikini pictures. He is treating you disrespectably. I pray you turn to God for sustenance, energy, and healing. (what every 3 months or so). Your strength will grow. I will stop for now. I really resented the idea that she seemed to be placing herself of great importance and was really his Number One Girl and I was some kind of consolation prize. Had she not placed that call I never would Have questioned him about this woman. I waited 30 years,same stuff,now go running. He always wanted to please her, he always offered to help her with her class-works (even to his own hurt). He swore up and down for one week saying he didnt know. He goes over a friends house one night at 7PM and I dont hear anything until 3PM the next day. I ask myself if I leave him, will I find a better one? I dont know what to do. The open and honest communication you and your husband are having now is awesome. 9. It was stressful but worth it. Do not let this happen to you. Hi I m married in 2009. v have a female child. I am still in shock as we never even had a fight. He said he had worked with this girl many years ago and they were friends then. I forgave him for that because we were not a sure thing just yet. Help for marriage problems, for couples who are recently or forever married. he is saying that he s not interested to hav sex with me within 3 yrs. I really dont know how to feel sometimes. Now he shows no remorse, he even confessed he loves her and that if the husband of hers didnt threaten hi, they would both continue together because they love each other. I dont know if hes cheating or not, but I know my husband doesnt usually bring up subjects that he doesnt want to talk about! So im going to try and sum up my problem. He still wasnt home by early morning. After they graduated from the University, the girl left for another country but my husband still maintained contact with her. 4) He is very frequently secretive with his phone, for example, he may go into another room to go on his phone, especially in the bathroom, where he will be for approximately 20 minutes at a time. In nov. Show a man love, faith, warmth, hard work and he will follow you. Good luck and be strong! Wise up. I confronted him but he says that the lady asked him to text that so that she could make his boyfriend jealous, I dont believe this at all, on top of that he has been sex texting with his ex girlfriend telling her how he love her p***y and would like to cum in actually he asked her if she can preserve herself for him until she come back, I feel devastated, he does not admit to it, all he says I know you dont believe me but that the truth. The latter finding might seem counterintuitive, Milhausen said, but other studies have also found this connection. You didnt do anything wrong. This is not out of the ordinary, but this time he didnt call, & he always call b4 going 2 bed or in general, but this time No call! Im hurt, disrespected, ashamed, embarrassed and my self esteem is so low. He mentioned once, after they got married how he has to stop talking to me, that she almost found out. Please give me your insight on this. That it must of been attached to a junk email he got. WE TALKED FOR HOURS EACH TIME, WENT OUT TO EAT AND ENDED UP HAVING THE BEST SEX I HAVE EVER HAD IN MY LIFE. Hello, Ive been married for 18 years and recently found out that my husband has been carrying on an affair with an ex-high school girlfriend whom hed gotten pregnant while they were still in high school but she lost the baby due to his mothers interference. 1: Make Sure He's Actually Cheating On You. The other odd thing is that your husband brought it up again the next day. Remember, actions speak louder than words (assuming he is actually saying some nice things too) no matter what he might say, he does not want to be with you. Speaking of, he hadnt remembered my birthday in 5 years. Can you live with him as he cheats on you? I am consumed in what happened. Do you have any suspicious activity like phone calls, texts, emails, etc? He said it was more frequent in the beginning then got less frequent as the weeks went on. If you are not married and you know he is cheating dont marry him, have sex with him, or countinue dating him that is stupid. So go F yourself.. But, there is good news! They stole my deceased fathers brand new truck and my car I had to purchase to replace the truck so I have wheels to get around. SO much. Why keep on trying when nothing gets better. Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot. "I excruciatingly suffered." When they say You may not believe me, but Im telling the truth then theyre telling the truth. Finally I found all my strength and went away for a while. Finally, after he entered a treatment faicility for alcoholism and sex addition, I have decided to leave the marriage. If you are in a relationship like this one, trust me, save yourself and leave as soon as you can. When we arrived he was drinking and laughing like it was no big deal he had been gone for so long. I will never do anything like that again. I dont think Im being nieve but he just isnt the type of person to cheat on me. He is a hard working man, hes absolutely wonderful with my girl, he is a great provider, my family loves him, he has never hit me or tried to hurt me in any way. But most every night i stay wide awake. Thanks for sharing this article. Please help! She told me that they had met in a club and that he had said he was single with no commitments. What should I do about it? She took lots of narcotic pain pills and it changed her personality. Do yourself a favor and move on start dating someone else AND NEVER BOTHER WITH HIM AGAIN. Im not sure where to begin becuase there are so manny points. Charmaine- Im sorry to hear that youve been going through this so many times. He called her a lier and I beleived him. Ive tried, but nothing is pointing toward someone who wants me for ME. Ive been to counceling and Ive tried and tried to put this behind me but it seems it will not go away. Stay strong everyone. He opens the car door for me and asks me to wait in the car while he comes around to my side to open it. He had to fix it, so he just told her he would get a room for her. Help! Which I regret to this day. I pray for you both as parents to your son, for unity and healing and connection. Shift the blame onto me again, said they were now just friends blah blah blah.Well we went back and fourth with our marriage and still are..It has been a very difficult ride for us and our children..Everyone is suffering..but now we are taking action , I am going to work on myself first and then if everything falls into place our marriage will be worked on. Youre only 10, and this is way too big and ugly for you to have to face! She said he didnt tell her he was married and i didnt see no more contact between them.He sweairs its coz he wanted to try his sexual ability with another woman since he used to be very sexual and suddenly not. You can recover honey. I always felt that my husband cheated n me, i ask him once if he have an affair with an0ther woman he said no but the housemaid of my uncle saw them. He says he has told me everything after initially lieing. I`m now at breaking point because even Couples Therapy didnt work. Will you teach your son that this is how to treat a woman? Am i being crazy for over reacting? i believe you got parents both meaning you and your husband, did you bring this matter to the elder espcially the divorce issue. He already disrespected the relationship by (1) going over there and drinking (it should only be about his child) that doesnt require liquor. Im only 23 years old and Im so lost idk what to do at this point I feel like my love for him is lost somewhere. I have my suspicions throughout the 13 years that I have been with my husband. It sounds like youve learned how to cope without living in a bad relationship, and youre much happier. I go in and check his email, I found an itinerary for a hotel room in our city. The guy I was with 2 1/2 years I finally found out he cheated on me. I am so confused. Jul 22, 2012 at 4:39 PM. I returned and didnt think anything until I saw a picture of a woman in my husbands gallery that was in an autosave file. Its a form of manipulation. And he denied it completely. As humans, especially as women, we have a need to love and be loved. I had never met a man like him before and over a two year period we ended up falling madly in love with each other. Let's pretend I have proof that your husband never had an affair and that this woman is just a super awesome work friend who makes him laugh. So the issue of cheating, has nothing to do with sex, so if you want your man to be honest with you, you first need to be honest with your self. When questioned he gets defensive ( although I am persistent so I may be the cause of this) tells me I am imagining things.His family was there and I feel awkward as subtle hints have emerged. I confronted him. We moved onwards from there, but it always felt like something was wrong. In March of 09 my mother was diagnosed with cancer. He has admitted, he never thought hed get caught. This is based on an actual research. S O S Please help me :(. Its a terrible thing, to find out your husband has been cheating and lying. So, I called the number and it was a female his age. I started focusing on my daughters. I tried calling him several times after the concert should have been over. Much prayers and good luck!! Are your kids all boys? HerNorm is a community-supported website. Thank you for your thoughts on a lying, cheating husband! what now if I cannot get the truth? If your wife is suspicious of you, its because you are behaving suspiciously. I know that they will be ok but I need to do this respectfully and do what is in the best interest of the children. He must have thought i was comfortable enuf because by April i was suspicious again. A few months went by and surprisingly we ran into each other during a church event I had to go too for work, then again the next weekend and we talked again I asked him if that was his friend behind him and he said no *looked down* my fiance.. i said oh.. and I walked away.. I have pulled away significantly since, where right after all this came out, I tried my best to help him. It sounds like youve been struggling with your husband for a long time, and youre confused about what to do. I wonder how your wife feels about your cheating on her, and telling her about it. Step up. Songs were written about this, that's how much it's true. I was a very tormented woman. All different types of things. We basically just had phone conversations mostly through out 1 1/2 years. I only know the brother and a couple other sisters of his. Thank you. The story would always have something more added to it. Lol. I think you know the right answer. He has an addict problem. It hurts me to read everyones storiesbut I have to say, it did help knowing there are others, like myself, that are going through very similar situations. Lately he has been talking to this girl via txt and i see him talking to her but i can never get ahold of his phone before he deleted their conversation. Get yourself over to the weights and make your body stronger. He may feel he has lost you and if you are on pain pills everyday, then he has lost you. I still think that he did. Where Do You Live After a Separation or Breakup? We have 3 children and one on the way. Good luck to all. i have questions on how to chatch me cheating husbans. He doesn't mean it. one day he come drunk at my house early in the morning and i went to his house to get him clean clothes i was very much than before disapoited a photo with a lady whose staying in his house pregnant for him. Do you think your husband is acting the way he is the signs a man is cheating not because hes cheating but because he feels emotionally distant from you? It sounds that way on a lot of these comments actually. And second I wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, then YES. Help? 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