Hey guys dunno if anyone can help. He'll do things like have the child FaceTime her, crying that he wants her to come over, constantly sends pics when he has him, etc, etc. And I say she won't and she says she hasn't decided but like me I already felt she had.. idk if its because I had been dreading it all night .but yeah so the day goes on she's seems even more distant and I just can't help myself by saying texting please don't break up with me I love you .and I don't know if youre going back to him then you tell me but she's says no I'm not leaving you for him its just she wants to get focused on her son and make him happy and I swear stranger I get that but she wasn't telling me a straight answer of we were broken up or not . So yeah we're dating and everything's a dream.and then this happens the father of the kid comes back ..now . She has made her decision to go back. You are using an out of date browser. either he respected the relationship i was in or he got to stepping never to see his kid again because me and my baby don't need all that. First off the reason they aren't together. in cases like these, someone ALWAYS get's hurt, lied, and left after she realizes that her "family" is worth more than another guy that she doesn't have a kid with. You must log in or register to reply here. All Rights Reserved. now how a lawyer and is fighting for custody saying she abandoned her son. Your situation is messed up because the dad sounds like he looking for a pity party and her to take care of him and if she fell for it take Elsa advice and let it go you'll find someone who wants to take care of you as much as you want to take care of them. Now you are in drama world, and don't know what to do. All was well for a few weeks after we returneduntil I missed my period. I allow my ex to stay over when he visits purely to save him money as hes making the trip up in the first place. He stays in touch with you even though he doesn't have to. Copyright 2023 EBONY. Do not quit your job if you have crotch goblins! Here are 5 signs your baby daddy wants you back. Because I feel like it's falling more and more on her. She knew what she was going back to and was willing to try. Same **** is happening to me right now. Since 1945, EBONY magazine has shined a spotlight on the worlds of Black people in America and worldwide. We are just now finding out that her wife is pregnant with 3 potential baby daddies. Giving him a few minutes to voice his mind won't hurt you *and it'll be fun too*. Hope this helps. My girlfriends baby daddy will not quit trying to get her back By Rapidrelex, 6 years ago on Family 3,071 I've been with my girlfriend (who has a four year old)for two years. in the state of oklahoma he has no rights since they were not married, my girlfriend is rebuilding her life, and trying to see her son and he doesnt allow her to call or see him. My my boyfriend wants to sleep with other women. He shares his self-improvement plans with you. I hate my boyfriends baby and the baby mama drama. 1, sorry daddy *smack* 2, sorry daddy . I Love you and hope the other women who may read this post appreciate the step dads and men who step in to take the role and responsibility like these men are. I was just wondering is it a good thing or a bad thing to let her still go out to christmas in the park and zobierama and events downtown just because they use to do it when they were dating? It might be a good idea to be friendly with him and get to know him because he will always be in her life due to them sharing a child. you may say I was wrong but say playa you aint taking care of ya kid it aint my fault. I want to fight my girlfriends baby daddy. I'm dealing with the exact same situation now and need to know how yours turned out. The reason I decided to post here is because I'm completely stumped on what to do in this situation, and thought I'd get some other opinions. So my girlfriend is technically still legally married. I trust her. He is on work release Its not a problem as long as you don't mind a ton of drama. well he used to. Husband (36m) mad at me (35f) and seeking FWB online. I use these times to try to bond with my baby daddy, because he left me for someone else. After calling me every name in the book, accusing me of having sex with the hotel stranger on the side and slandering me to everyone we knew, including my family, my now ex-boyfriend packed his bags and moved out. He can't be around cause he makes it about me so lets leave it up to the courts.As much as i hate to do that. It's not a joke. They are your children. I'm like aw man not this..but I don't say anything about it .but she does. If your girlfriend does ask him to go away, you have every right to enter the conversation and step in between them. she has to quit letting him control ****. I was with my new man so i called the cops to let them deal with it. we've have several altercations before because he doesn't like me but this last time he stated shoving me and . You re playing house, acting like wife, cooking, cleaning, taking care of his child by another woman, and being oh too accommodating, and, yet you re not his wife. Get your life in order, girl. . For now I just focus on loving her. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. The footage, posted early Saturday, purportedly shows Savannah Sprague, a cheerleader for Clayton Valley Charter High School, brutally beating an unidentified girl who had just challenged her to a. in my point of view, the woman you are dating may still have a thing for the father of her child. Straight up he just wants to hold on to her and keep her on the back burner to fall in tell her this open her eyes yea she's thinking about her baby but she's not thinking deep enough she's just going backwards and gonna fall into the same trap she was in before she's blind right now Becasue a good guy you came along and now this either she never moved on or she wants u both just open her eyes and tell her but let her be as much as it hurts let her come to u move on if u have to and she will realize it good luck, Thanks friend I appreciate your feedback sorry for the late response .well I'm kinda out of it these days we don't talk anymore maybe once in while lil texts like hey or one worded things .it looks like its over really . I've been in the picture since he was one and have a great relationship with him (the child). My best friend hates my boyfriend and I dont know what My husband hates my mom. But i had a dream of me in jail. Those words were always in the back of my mind as I dated. The hardest day of my life was my entire childhood. So if you can't get along or respect each other then take the higher road out of respect for the kid and walk away from any verbal or physical confrontations. My girlfriend's baby's daddy is trying to break us up. It's easy to get provoked when an ex-boyfriend enters your territory. You re his girlfriend. sad to say bro but she ended up leaving me for him just prepare yourself is all but hope your relationship goes better, are you talking to me or him, you are very pretty by the way , oh well we broke up a long time ago she left me for him so they back together and im single again but gotta enjoy single life for now but yeah she did it for the baby she was life yeah and no on doing it because she allways end up fighting with him but oh well not my problem no more just feel sorry for the baby, So the conclusion is: he took your woman back. I think I'm the problem. In your circumstances, since you're already in the child's lifeyou need to put your foot down and get involved with those family outings, your gf should support you 100% on that. Why my baby daddy keep begging for sex?!!!!! 1. I wanted him to be in his childs life but after talking to my boyfriend i learned that baby dad has to want to be in her life and that means getting along and letting me live my life. If the girl is strong enough to get through with leaving and handling her own business than she will be worth staying with but if your constantly fighting her fight's and trying to step into a situation that she is the only one that can make better for herself than your going to be fighting your entire relationship with the baby daddy because remember; they have a child and a father will fight until the end for his son/daughter against another man, but he will stop if the mother makes things clear about their situation. And if there isn't, ask him if he'd like to spend some time with his son or daughter. I've been with my girlfriend (who has a four year old)for two years. "Baby you still have five more but I'll make them quick ones sweety" he says calmly. anyways, its a F** up situation and I was willing to go through with it but my friend made me realize that it's really not worth it. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. I don't know if violence will work it might give him an excuse to cause legal trouble for you. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told. I just hope one day when she gets older she can forgive me and listen when I tell her that its okay to not do what the other woman will. Dreaming Of You Fighting With Your Girlfriend. For the longest time- they had split custody- she would have him half a week- and he would have him the other half of the week. Correct me if I'm wrong!?! Source: Courtesy of A&E / lifetime Back in September, it was revealed that Dominique Gardner, one of the young women featured in Lifetime's Surviving R. Kelly docuseries and allegedly abused by R.. He feels he can come around whenever he pleases because his daughter is there. He just started working and has offord to pay her daycare for the week. Usually violence is the answer contrary to popular belief, but it'll get me nowhere in this situation, and I'm stumped. MY GIRLFRIENDS BABY DADDY IS CRAZY!!! Thank you to anyone that can help answer my questions lol. And i plan on living and being happy. I am in the same situation but the ex is sort of an african muslim . Take a look. You don't sound that head over heals in love anyway so I would just give it a miss. I had to put my foot down. 239 Logan Paul Criticizes Jake Paul's Vicious Nate Robinson KO https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u87klhFoZxg&t=709s&pbjreload=101&ab_channel=Imp. The sitcom stars Jean-Luc Bilodeau as Ben Wheeler, a bartender, who while moving his brother Danny Wheeler ( Derek Theler) into the apartment Ben shares with best friend Tucker Dobbs ( Tahj Mowry ), he's surprised when Emma, a baby girl, is left on his doorstep by Angela, a girl with whom he had a one-night stand. Watch popular content from the following creators: DramaMama(@dramam0mma), Kayleigh G. (@girlthatskayliegh), casper_the_human(@casper_the_humann), FindTheDrama(@findthedrama), Jordyn(@jordynrudolph), kels(@kelshaaye), Mariah Angle(@mariahangle), Dylan(@mitchelldylan0318), casper_the_human(@casper_the_humann . Because any man who doesnt think what you have to offer isnt enough, isnt worthy of you anyway. I feel so insecure. . So, her baby daddy uses her/his child against her as well. Child Support Rights as a Father. my girlfriends abusive and manipulative dad (won't get into too much detail) want me to fight him. My baby daddy wants to fight my boyfriend, my landlord is trying to bogusly evict me, and I want to quit my job because I have a terrible boss. I would not recommend you doing anything crazy cus we need you to be bigdaddy out here. Now I Don't Know Who My Child's Father Is". She has no mom, no dad to help with child care, or living expenses so I guess I felt the need to be there and support her and her child. girlfriends baby daddy come over for holidays and spend the day with us as a family is ok? If he has no money, job, or car, how will he find you? I know this is hard to hear however until he accepts that she is done he will continue this behavior she needs to cut contact for a few months and suggest that he see a therapist for the issues he is having. Why my baby daddy keep begging for sex?!!!!! The Coli - The Best Hip Hop, Rap, Sports Forum and Message Board. The moment you got with this chick, you signed up to be in drama world. You are his girlfriend. just my opinion. 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